Review: Stainless Steel Plug by KINKX

 

 

Everyone who knows me knows I love anal. From the orgasms to just the act of anal sex in general, it’s definitely on my top list of sexual activities. What I like more than anal sex is a manageable, comfortable plug. It also doesn’t hurt if it’s made of a body safe material like stainless steel and has a cute little jewel attached to the bottom either. Stainless steel has become my favorite material for anal plugs. It’s the easiest material to clean, and it doesn’t retain smells. I find that steel plugs slide in with very little convincing. The only con I would have about it is the lack of flexibility and comfortability; however, with the Jeweled Plug by KINKX, you can scratch that off the list. Plus, what’s better than a comfortable non-silicone plug; adding a jewel with your favorite color to the bottom!

Jeweled butt plugs are my favorite type to use. Not only do they give me the feeling of fullness for masturbation, sex, or just wearing during the day, but they also have a beautiful look to them. With recently entering the cam modeling world, I find that my steel plugs by KINKX have recently gained a lot of positive feedback. A lot of my customers love the way it looks in my ass, and I find that it photographs really well for posting and selling photos. The demand for the jeweled plugs over traditional ones has increased ever since I wore my first one. It’s a good thing there is such a high demand, because these plugs are worth the money.

When sliding in the KINKX plug, I used a small amount of lube (Sassy, of course!). It was a very manageable size and slid right in. I wish the plug would have been a little bit bigger in both length and girth, but it doesn’t affect my experience with it. It would make a great plug for anyone who wants to experience a steel plug, without spending as much cash as the others may cost. It never felt too heavy like my experiences with other metal plugs either, which was refreshing. I always worry with the heavier plugs that they might fall out, but with this one, there was no concern. The only concern I had regarding this plus was how small the base was. There were a couple of times it felt like the plug was going all the way in when I was clenching my muscles, but when I felt where the base of the plug was, it was still safe outside of my ass. If you can look past that minor setback, 20160623_104731I think you have a winning plug.

Overall, the KINKX Jeweled Stainless Steel butt plug is great for beginners. It’s a manageable size, and it’s not too heavy. It looks gorgeous on cam as well as in pictures. It’s comfortable enough to wear during the day for the feeling of fullness or just a dirty little secret. I would recommend this plug to everyone I know.

The Team Player: Tantus Sport

It is very rare that I find a toy I like for both vaginal and anal penetration. A lot of times the toy is easy to take vaginally, but my ass isn’t having any part of it. I came to a perfect medium with the Tantus Sport. This toy is seriously one of the best purchases I have made. Tantus has always been one of my favorite toy brands. Their body safe premium silicone always ensures I will never have to worry about any issues, and the colors and designs never cease to amaze me. The design of the Sport is no different, and my body will happily agree.

The Tantus Sport is an amazing g-spot dildo with a beautiful curve and a delicious bulbous head that always hits my favorite spots. It is body safe and super easy to clean via boiling water, toy cleaner, or dishwashers. The premium silicone is firm, but not uncomfortable. I find that the firmness of it gives me just the right pressure I need to push right against my g-spot. The base is the perfect size to hold for thrusting and allows for hands-free anal use.

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For vaginal the Sport went in very smoothly without any lube. The head is very easy to take, and the thinness of the shaft makes it comfortable to use for a beginner and also pegging. The head is just the right size to nestle right against my g-spot, and the curve of the shaft allows me to rock it just the right amount to get to the ultimate orgasm. I also found that it was easy to turn the toy around inside of me to change up the location of the head, which made for an interesting sensation. After seeing how amazing it was for vaginal use, it was a no brainer I had to try it out for anal play. I have to say, I wasn’t let down, not in the least bit. If anything the anal play was probably more intense for me.

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Although the Sport is perfect for vaginal without lube, it was strongly needed for anal. I applied a dollop of Sassy to the head and shaft and prepared myself for what was about to come. It took a little bit of coaxing to get it in, but I found when I just teased the outside of my ass with it, I was able to relax and slide the head right in. When I first slid it in with the head facing towards my belly button, it was a little too intense for me, but as I did with vaginal, I was able to twist it around with the head down, and immediately felt an amazingly intense pressure that comes with a great anal orgasm. I barely had to thrust the toy before I was able to achieve an incredible anal orgasm. The best part about the size of the Sport was being able to use my Uncut #2 for vaginal and have a nice DP session. I never felt like the sensation of both of them was too much, and I believe I had the manageable size of the Sport to thank.

Bottom line: If you don’t have the Sport, then you really should order one as soon as you can. It is a game changer in both vaginal, anal, and double penetration. It’s body safe, so you’ll never have to worry about putting your body in a messy situation. The head is fantastic for g-spot penetration, and for anal play, it will change the game. I very rarely find a universal toy that does it all, but with the Sport, I believe I have found true love. I think everyone should have this toy inside of them at least once, to get the full experience of how kick ass this toy is.

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The Art of Perfection: Tantus Perfect Plug

When Tantus named the Perfect Plug, they fucking got it right! From the silky smooth silicone, down to the fantastic design, I must say, this plug is perfect. I’m thankful for the solution I was able to find to get the dreaded ass smell out of it, so this plug can honestly be named “Best Plug I Own”.

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The Perfect Plug is hands downs the best plug I have ever used. With a very manageable length of 3.5″ and a girth of .75″, it makes this very easy to take for beginners. It’s almost like using a finger, which I always recommend to first-time anal players. After I  cleaned it, I applied a small amount of Sassy and prepared for insertion. When I finally slid it in, it went almost too smoothly. The tip was so easy to take, and my ass almost sucked in the plug. I honestly didn’t have to do much to get this plug in.  The anchor at the bottom made it sit snugly, so I didn’t feel like I had to worry about it coming out during the day. The anchor also fit very comfortably between my cheeks. Even after sitting down, I felt no discomfort. With other plugs I have used in the past I have been able to walk around fine, but sitting down was almost impossible. Not only was this easy to sit with, but walking with it in was a breeze. I never felt the plug slipping out. Every time I bent over I was reminded I was wearing it.  It was thrilling to have this little secret. I liked the feeling of being full during the day, and no one was the wiser to why I had such a pep in my step.

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After wearing it for a couple of hours during the day, I finally decided it was time to take the plug out. I would like to go ahead and strongly recommend now, that if you plan on using a plug, do yourself a favor beforehand and clean yourself out. I wish I would have done it before I used mine, excitement got the best of me, and I didn’t worry about it. It came out as easy as it went in. I cleaned it with warm soapy water immediately and let it air dry. That’s when I hit a snag in my love for the Perfect Plug.

When I got home, I couldn’t help but notice the overwhelming smell of shit on my beloved plug. I did some online research and tried cleaning it to the best of my ability, and still had no relief. I was torn at this point, because the last silicone plug I had this issue with I had to, unfortunately, toss in the trash, and there was no way I could bring myself to part ways this amazing plug. Alas, though a miracle came, and the mood was changed.

Cleaning silicone butt plugs is the only downside to having one. It was comforting to know that I wasn’t the only one alone in this quest to find the best cleaning solution. I searched for days on different blogs, forums, and posts to see if anyone had a way to get the smell out. At this point, I had already boiled it for 10 minutes with a 10% bleach solution, threw it (literally) in the dishwasher, and still that damn smell would linger. I went on Tantus’ website to see if there was any other way, and I came across a post about baking it. Baking a butt plug? There is no way I thought something like that would work, but it did!!!!

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The life-saving post

 

I came home from work and figured it was worth a shot. I boiled it once more just for a peace of mind that it would be sterile, and cleaned out my oven while I waited. I set the temperature to 350 degrees, as stated on the site, grabbed a wire cooking sheet and put the plug on top. After setting the timer for 30 minutes, I sat down to catch up on a new episode of It’s Always Sunny, and didn’t think anything of it. There was no odd smell coming out of the oven, which I was worried would give me away. The only thing I smelt in the baking process was the heat from the oven. Once the timer went off, my heart was beating in my chest. This was the final moment. When I took it out, I let it cool down for a bit before I did my sniff test. I can’t tell you how excited I was to get hit in the face by the smell of……..silicone!!!!! The ass smell had completely vanished!!!! I was so excited because this was the only snag in writing my review. I wanted to make sure that there was no way this plug could have any negative aspects to it. It was like Christmas all over again.

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So cleaning issues aside, I now feel comfortable recommending this plug 100% to anyone I know. If you’re a beginner, the Perfect Plug will make you want to experience more anal play. Even if you’re a seasoned anal player, it’s still good for a wearable plug during the day. For those of you wanting a bigger option, Tantus also has a larger version of the Perfect Plug that comes with their signature bullet vibrator. I haven’t personally used the large version, but from the reviews I have seen it’s as much as a big hit as the smaller one. Body safe silicone, mixed with comfortability makes the Perfect Plug a must own item for everyone out there.

My First Pegging: The Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set Review

Two years ago as I mentioned in my post I was so clueless about a lot of things. I knew there was a whole world of anal sex, but I had no idea that straight men liked it, let alone with a strap-on or anything phallic shaped. I saw the prostate massagers we had at work and figured that was the only thing that would be an option. Half of them scared me with how they looked, so I looked and played with them, but kept my distance. I had heard the term “milking the prostate” thrown around here and there, but I was yet to experience it with anyone. I put it on the back burner as something that would be cool to try, but I never thought the opportunity to do it would ever knock on my door.

When the term pegging was brought up to me, I swear I asked almost every single person at work what it meant and if they have ever done it. My coworker informed me that she never had, but heard it was one of the most liberating things, and at that instant I knew it was going to be something to cross off my “fucket list.” I was pretty intrigued and figured I would give it a shot, because who knows when this opportunity would ever come back around? Very least, I would have a good story to tell.

I was surprised when my friend brought it up to me. My friend is extremely hetero, and probably the biggest guy’s guy you can imagine. From his job to how he presented himself, he was the last person I would ever imagine pegging. It took me back a second and took me a while to think about before I decided to take the plunge, but once we set boundaries and made sure everything had been communicated we were ready to roll. I cannot stress enough how important it is to communicate before and during pegging. It takes a lot of thought and consideration, and it requires some patience as you will want to go slow at first. As I always say, “Treat other asses the way you would want yours to be treated.”

The topic of pegging couldn’t have been brought up at a better time. At the time, we were in the middle of having our annual ladies night where all the vendors would come and talk about their products. I ended up modeling the Newcomers Strap-On by Sportsheets (what can I say, I love my job!) and received it as a gift for my impeccable modeling skills. When I brought it back to the house, we both agreed that the size was fine, despite me giving him the side eye on more than one occasion. He had even mentioned wanting to go bigger, but I figured to save that for a later date. It was my first time doing anything like this, even though to this day he says he couldn’t tell. I was just trying to make sure I created an experience he would like and want to do again, instead of going balls deep with a bigger one.

wp-1448419230771.jpgI have to say after actually doing it, he was right. The dong that came with the machine washable harness was a perfect fit. The silicone dildo measured in at a tolerable 5 inches, with almost an inch in girth. It has a nice little suction cup at the bottom that you don’t think would be as strong as it is. I seriously had some issues taking the damn thing off the wall. When I finally did, of course, I flew back right with it. That being said, I would say another pro with this is being able to ditch the partner and back up against it if you’re really in dire need of a little anal action. The harness fit me perfectly, which I figured being that it boasts that a 60-inch hip can fit into it. The straps were easy to adjust by simply pulling, and it fit comfortably against me. There was no discomfort while I was wearing it, and no chaffing. I was able to fit my Tango in between me and the harness, but it was a little uncomfortable being that there was no small pocket on this particular one to put it. Although Sportsheets does offer other options with this feature, this one, unfortunately, doesn’t, which would have to be one of the negatives. The only other negative would be the lack of detachable o-rings that gives you more variety with the dongs that you use (the o-ring fits up to 1.25″ diameter), but since it’s for beginners, I can see why that wasn’t a huge concern when designing this.

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Once we finally found a time to get into it, (damn work schedules), I added a substantial amount of water based lubricant on it and slid it in with ease. It was so easy to do it; I was shocked. It came like a second nature to me. Since I am shorter than him, it took about 5 or 6 different angles to decide what would finally work with our height differences. I finally had him at the end of the bed while I entered from behind. Let me tell you when the time came for him to climax, it was one of the most liberating things I’ve ever done. I have always been more of a submissive person when it comes to sex, but finding that it was possible to make a man come from anal sex, was indescribable. I will let you know; it is a leg workout from hell. My legs hurt so much the next day; it was hard to walk or stand, but it was for a good cause. I’ve always gone the extra mile for my friends, so non-working legs next day in exchange for a little anal play is fine by me!

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I want to applaud Sportsheets for making such a simple harness to use for the first time anyone wants to try pegging or just strapping in general. It made it an experience I would be willing to try again if I was ever to get the opportunity. The harness was super comfortable, and the dong had a nice firm feel to it. I like that the straps were so easy to adjust since I have the worst luck with that kind of thing. The box was sturdy, and I primarily use it for storing my harness. I have sold the harness to a couple of customers at work, and I have heard nothing but good reviews on it. I am so glad there is a nice quality beginners strap-on for people, like me, who have no idea where to start. The people at Sportsheets hit the nail on the head by providing a perfect dong and harness combination that doesn’t look or feel cheap. I have seen so many beginner’s harnesses with a thin foam piece of material and a cheap jelly dong, so it’s great to see that even if you’re a beginner there are some excellent quality options for you to try out without breaking the bank.  I will recommend this to anyone interested in pegging or trying a strap-on for the first time.

Sad Butt True: Sensuelle Homme Butt Plug

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When I first heard about the Sensuelle Homme Plug I had high hopes. I also have the Sensuelle Point Bullet and the rechargeable remote control bullet, so I was familiar with the brand’s power. Since the Sensuelle Point is extremely powerful, I thought I was going to be in for a treat. Upon opening the box I found that it came with a magnetic charger, and a personal storage back. I was really excited about the concept of a rechargeable butt plug, and so far I have not had any issues with charging. The material was non-scented PVC, which I wasn’t too thrilled about (not really my favorite material), especially since it was catching every little piece of thread and fuzz from being in the bag. It took a little bit longer to clean than I liked, but I got over it. The power on the plug was exactly what I expected, but the design was seriously lacking.

While looking at the base of the plug, I was a little nervous that the bottom wasn’t going to tapered enough. Unfortunately, my suspicions were correct. The base was flared enough to prevent any issues with the plug going inside of me, but the tapering wasn’t enough. Before insertion, I generously applied my Sassy by Sliquid. Suspicions aside, I went into the shower and prepared to use it.

Insertion wasn’t too difficult in the very beginning. The tip is pretty slim, and, for the most part, the plug was easy to take. The biggest issue I had was getting down to the base of the plug. Getting the bottom of the plug to actually stay in was so difficult, it took away from being able to enjoy what I was doing. It was next to impossible for my muscles to grab a hold of it. Between the vibrations being so powerful, and the poor base design, it kept vibrating out of me onto the shower floor. Finally, I held it in long enough to get close to an orgasm, but with being so frustrated, and focusing on holding it in at the perfect angle, I ended up taking it out, and finishing my shower without.

I’m really bummed on the outcome of this plug. I feel like it could easily be one of the best ones on the market, with a little bit of a design tweak.  The power was pretty impressive, as with the rest of the brand’s items, but it’s hard to enjoy while you’re standing in the shower one leg propped up and one arm behind trying to keep it in. The one pro is, I got an extra bullet out of it since the sleeve is removable. Unfortunately, this was a no-go for me as much as I wanted to like it.

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Lube: Anal’s Best Friend

My first time having anal sex I went sans lube, and it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Not only was it painful, but it turned me off from experiencing one of the best orgasms I have ever had. Recently I gave anal a second shot, and I am so glad that I did. The biggest lesson I learned is; the key to perfect anal sex is the right lubricant. In my quest for reintroducing anal sex, I have tried countless lubricants. Some worked better than others, but I have narrowed it down to my favorite two.

Sassy by Sliquid

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Sassy by Sliquid is my favorite water-based anal lubricant. It is thicker, almost like a gel, which helps it stay put while in the middle of everything. Most of the water-based anal lubricants I have used don’t seem to last as long as the Sassy did, it also never got sticky or tacky, and I didn’t have to reapply; a major plus when it comes to a water-based formula. Rest assured if it was to ever dry out at any point, all you would have to do is add a little bit of water or saliva. Sliquid is a vegan company, so they don’t use any harsh chemicals or test on animals, which is a plus for all the vegan product lovers. Sassy is also paraben and glycerin free, so if you’re prone to sensitive skin, this product will not cause any issues. Being hypoallergenic is another plus to using this product. Since it is water-based, clean up is easy and hassle free. Water-based formulas are perfect for your silicone anal toys since it won’t break down the silicone material like oil based lubricants will. The only downside to Sassy is that it would not be ideal to use during shower play since the formula is likely to wash away easily.

Swiss Navy Premium Silicone Anal

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I am absolutely IN LOVE with the Swiss Navy Anal lubricant!!! This silicone formula has clove in it which acts as a relaxing agent to make anal sex more comfortable for first timers, and even seasoned users. I always recommend this over any kind of desensitizing product, because if any issues occur you will be able to feel, and tell your partner when you need to stop. I also notice if I have any discomfort, it almost acts as a moisturizer. Upon applying you will be able to feel how silky smooth and viscous it is. Be warned: since silicone lubes are oil based, it is hard to clean up if it is on any hard surface such as the tile floor on a shower. Shower play is guaranteed to last as long as you want because it will not wash away or dry out. The only downfall to this product is not being able to use it with silicone anal toys, however, it is safe with glass, metal, and plastic materials.

Bottom line: Whatever your preference is, we can all agree: there is no such thing as too much lube!

These are my favorite anal lubricants. I’m always open to new suggestions, so what’s yours?